When you pass away, there are several decisions that your family will need to make. These include which funeral home should care for your body after death, who will possess your belongings and property, and where you will be buried. An option is to plan a cremation before you pass away so that it’s one less thing for your family to worry about.

Include Others

If you’ve already made the decision to be cremated, then consider making sure your family and friends are included in the decision. You need to let them know that you are alright with not having a funeral and that you want to be cremated, as there could be some family members who don’t like the idea. Try to listen to what others have to say, keeping their feelings in mind. However, you need to let them know why you are alright with cremation as a decision and that you’ll be at peace.

Choose a Type

There are a few types of cremation to consider. One is the traditional cremation, blended with a traditional funeral. This could be a good option if your family isn’t too comfortable with the idea of a cremation. They will be able to say their goodbyes with your body in the funeral home or the church, and then your body will be cremated. Another option would be to be cremated beforehand and then have a service with photos and other items to remember your life. An urn can be placed on a small table as well. This is a beneficial option if the memorial service needs to take place a few weeks after your death.

Professional Care

Once you’ve decided that you want to be cremated, you should talk to a crematory you trust, and that offers professional services. Make sure all documents are signed and that any amount owed for the cremation is paid before you pass away, if at all possible, as this can help relieve some of the financial burden for your family. The funeral home director can explain all available options and help ensure that any memorial service you have is completed as you wish. Each decision should be clearly documented so that your family knows of your wishes instead of only telling your family or the funeral home what you want. The funeral home can keep a copy on file for disagreements.

Your Remains

After you’ve completed all of the paperwork for your cremation and have everything in place, the last thing to decide is where your remains should be once you’re cremated. Talk to your family to see if they want to keep them in an urn with one family member, if you want to be buried or put in a mausoleum, or if your family wants to get jewelry or other items where your remains can be divided amongst multiple people.

What happens to you at the end of your life should be your decision. Cremation is an option that many people choose, and it has benefits for you and your family.

Published by Jeremy S.